Sunday
Happy Halloween!
Anyways, Halloween has been great this year! I dressed up like a viking, using my dad's real deer fur, lots of leather belts, my boots, a borrowed hat, and a borrowed toy sword that goes from the floor to my shoulder! My inspiration...
I took my little brother trick-or-treating since my mom had to help my other brother with his class station at the carnival and some maniac in a mask really scared him. I'll just say I began to feel my big-sisterly instincts creep in and I almost wanted to tear his mask off and say, "Hey, the kid's four; give him a break!" But I figure that's just part of Halloween.
After everything, I went with some friends to a church dance where you got to wear your costume. On ladies' choice I asked a guy who was dressed like a missionary and discovered he likes to write too :) Two other people asked me to dance and four people asked if they could play with my weapon. My conclusion of the night, "They only like me for my sword."
My one friend (the one who's blog I just advertised) was driving and when she dropped the other one off we began talking about one of the guys who had been following her around at the dance--the newest member of her fan club. I jokingly told her that and she chuckled mirthlessly saying she wasn't even in her fan club. My humble friend then began to tell me of the trial of being the girl who somehow always got the guy. With a roll of her eyes she explained how they didn't know the half of her and how awkward things can get. She described annoying text messages, unwanted drama, and how much she couldn't wait for the goofy highschool stages to be overwith and for everyone to grow up.
Call it hormones, teenagers, drama, or all the above, by the end of that ride I suddenly didn't feel so bad for only dancing with a few people. I had a paradigm shift.
I once heard a quote, "If the grass is greener on the otherside it must rain a lot more over there." This seemed to illustrate it. We look around at some people and naturally think they have everything. But I've come to see what may be one of the reason's God is 'no respector of persons'. We all have the same amount of problems as well as blessings, though they may come in many different shapes and forms. I also heard someone talk of how if we all got together and threw our problems into a pile in order to trade them, we'd all rush for our own because we wouldn't want anyone elses.
So let us enjoy the blessings we have and problems that we don't.
Lessons I Learned as a Boy
I don't know about you, but I thought I could use some cheering up today so i visited good ol' youtube. (This may take a few posts and I originally meant this one to be last so if you want you can just go to the archives on your left and click on them from the bottom to the top.)
"The best thing anyone can have up their sleeve is a good funny bone"
Watson said, "I see a fantastic panorama of countless stars."
Holmes said, "And what do you deduce from that?"
Watson replied, "Astronomically, it suggests to me that if there are billions of other galaxies that have roughly similiar stellar population densities as represented by my view, that, potentially, trillions of planets may be associated with such a galactic and, therefore, stellar population. Allowing for for similiar chemical distribution throughout the cosmos it may be reasonably implied that life--and possibly intelligent life--may well fill the universe.
Theologically, it tells me that the vastness of space may be yet another suggestion of the greatness of God and that we are small and insignificant.
Meteorologically, the blackness of the sky and the cripsness of the stellar images tells me that there is a low humidity and stable air and therefore we are most likely to enjoy a beautiful day tommorrow."
"Watson, you idiot, someone stole our tent!"
Patience and Me
Thursday
Pride and Batteryjuice
Sunday
Homecoming
And, just for the full effect, here's the front. I still haven't figured out what that little rope thing on the shoulder is for...
I discovered a social skill through all this--at least in my school. If you drive an interesting car to school on your first day of having a license, accidentally mix up nerd day with just an ordinary monday, or wear a blue and gold portable sweat room to class, you do it with pride! Then people will look at you and say--hey, that's kinda cool. If you do it with slumped shoulders and eyes down, then they tease you. It's just something I've noted throughout my highschool career--so I strutted this thing!
And it made my date laugh really hard and brag to someone about it who was wondering if I had a loose screw or something--making it totally worth it!
Then there was the dance. After rushing around like a chef without a salad, I thew on my outfit, plastered on some make-up, showered myself in hairspray, and practiced in my new highheels before texting him that I was ready. He was too and said he'd be there in a minute, opening the latch to my internal butterfly cage.
"There he is!" my mom greeted as she opened the door. I grabbed my phone and clip-clopped down the hall.
Now, ladies and gents, (especially gents) I really appreciated the slight rise of the eybrows and smile I got. It made stressing over modesty so worth it! It was the same with prom with the soft "woa!" or just the pleased grin. So go for it guys, compliment your wives, your daughters (I loved when my Dad told me I looked nice), your sisters, your friends--I'm sure they'll appreciate it too.
So then, after my mom's photo shoot (which I'm sure you'll see more of soon), we went over to my date's house for his mom's photo shoot--then it was off to the dance!
We were the first date there...its a good thing we established before hand that we both really like dances....
The music was...alright. There were a few good songs here and there, but otherwise it was just rap junk (no offense to those of you who like it, I just don't appreciate the lyrics.) So me and my date decided to reccomend the hokey-pokey. Yeah, we rock like that.
After the dance--which ended up really being a blast--we went to my ward's bishop's house for waffles! Him and his wife are amazing! Who stays up until 2:00 a.m. making waffles for a rowdy bunch of teenagers? They do. And they're good at it too!
It was then, after laughing and joking with our fellow attendees for awhile after having finished the best thing I've ever eaten that late, I discovered my date needed to get up at 7 for a choir thing. So, deciding I was tired too, we left. He walked me to my doorstep and I gave him a hug, as what happens on every other date I've been on. But I knew this one was fun because as I was getting ready to say my prayers and turn in, I saw the jacket hanging on my chair and felt kind of bummed that it was over.
But hey, I'd see him in Monday. And--my favorite part about dating--I just added another friend to my list.
Saturday
Wind Speeds and You
Like today, for example, I was riding my bike (against our small town's notorious wind) when I noticed a bird flying overhead. I love watching birds. If I didn't get so stir-crazy so easily I could probably be a pretty good bird watcher, but that's besides the point.
Anyways, I didn't just see the bird, I noticed what it was doing; flying with the wind. How smart, I noted, pushing my pedals even harder and ducking my head to get another foot or two. Obviously going against it wasn't working so well. Which got me thinking...
We have winds, if you will, or trials that come our way and we have two choices. Either we can fight and curse and spit and avenge and wrestle our way against them wondering why it had to blow our direction and how much we didn't deserve it OR we can accept it, spread our wings, and try our best. Afterall, its these winds that can carry us faster across the sky than we ever could in the first place. These trials, if handled the right way, can stretch us and build us into better...birds per say, and we can fly our skies at a better rate than we could before.
So, in closing, as another amazingly wise man, Joseph B. Wirthlin, said, "Come what may and love it!"